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I Like hugs a lot.
Despite what I said on my post on stress, I really like hugs, well depending on many many factors.
I really like hugs, especially if it is from a person I like a lot or just a really good friend. But I hate hugging people when I really just don't want to, if I don't wanna hug, please don't force me because I will become extremely awkward and we'll just have a very weird stiff hug. After that, I will severely dislike you for at least half an hour, don't hug me when I don't want one.
It Is Okay To Hug Me...
...if you are a really really cute animal. (actually, can you consider that as a hug? Probably yes.)
...when I am in a good mood. (I am hardly in a good mood,)
...when I say "Can someone hug me? Please?" and I burst into tears.
I like hugging but it can be extremely uncomfortable, if I was in a really good mood, I could greet you with a hug.(Probably won't ever happen in my life.) But in the right conditions, hugs are very nice.
It is NOT Okay To Hug Me...
...when I'm angry
...when I am crying and want to be alone.
...when you are a Python
...when you are a bad person
...when I am alive
Sometimes, a very affectionate social butterfly type person would try to hug me when I don't want a hug, once they finish they'd ask why I was like a stone statue when we hugged.
I would need to explain that I don't really like hugs.
Then they'll say "That... does not make sense.", then "What horrible childhood event turned you into a cold, distant sociopath? You are a coldhearted freak aren't you? You might be a serial killer, you're a serial killer." (People are so harsh.)
So that's what they think of me, but really, I'm not the type of person that is extremely affectionate (unless you are a really really good friend).
Hugs are mentally and physically unpleasant.
- Hugging for the first time is extremely uncomfortable, there is no universal way to hug, and there are so many hugs that are honestly extremely awkward.
- I am an awkward so the hug would be very unpleasant for me, I don't know how to deal with it.
- Even if you figure out where to put your arms with minimal awkwardness, an accessory could ruin it all. e.g backpack.
- Sometimes our ears hook, a frenzy follows
- Sometimes some people hug differently because of cultural differences, so the way you hug (or the other person) could convey the wrong meaning.
- It is like a balancing act, put your hands too high it usually means you are either comforting the person or are in love, too low then... you know.
- When someone actually does hug you in a certain way, you just have thoughts going through your mind, trying to understand the meaning if the hug.
This portrays my inner feelings when I receive an unwanted hug.
Let Me Give Some Advice To You Huggers:
There are things that you shouldn't hug:
Angry Cats (But they are so cute)
Cacti (latin) /Cactuses (English)
Giant Anime Squid/Octopus monsters
Pikachus (don't wanna be shocked do you?)
Molesters
Anything Sharp
When you hug here are some guidelines:
- Always respect another person’s space. Don't hug em if they don't wanna.
- Ask permission, unless both parties are already comfortable with it.
- Hug according to the situation, there is a difference between a ‘nice to meet you’ hug and a ‘I need you now, please love me.’ hug.
- In general, try not to put your hand too high or too low, too low is becomes sexual, to high, it becomes too passionate.
- Also, good hygiene please, no one wants to hug someone smelly.
- Don't hug too tight and make their eyes pop out of their head.(especially with pugs, I get really scared with that.)
So if you follow these guidelines, you should probably not get killed by a psychotic person.
Also, about other social stuff us homosapiens do, why don't you go to my post on Kissing.
Also, sorry for not posting for like, a million years, but now I'm back. My posts won't be super regular but I will try hard to post more often.
Well, hope y'all have a good day!
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